Sorry, I know there are posts like this, but kinda wanted to ask for some advice, and didn't want it to be under some older, forgotten post.

I'm 29 man from Poland. I've decided to start dating, and wanted to put somewhere on my profile that I'm a sub. Feeld makes it easy, I managed to be brave enough to put choose option "being submissive", but other apps are more tricky.

I don't want my profile to be all about sexual preferences, because that's just a part of what I'm looking for. So I wanted to be more subtle. There are a lot of great suggestions on this subreddit, but I feel they won't work in my language, unfortunately. What I've done, is writing that I'm a bit shy, second thing - there is a line in my profile "I'm not against less traditional roles in relationships", hoping it might at least filter some people out.

Other thing is, with Spotify connected, on my artists list is Vana (i love BEG!). But I've been thinking that I'm the favourite song option I could put either Deity by Valeree, or Mirrors by Natalia Kills. But I fear those songs might be a bit off-putting and too sexual?

So, I wanted to ask what people think about elements like this?