I’m (M23) going on a second date with this girl and we’ve known each other for a while because of mutual friends. We are the same age and she’s great, hopefully things work out because I really wanna date her. I recently started getting into fem dom, and it would be amazing if my partner would be dom. It isn’t a make or break deal at all, just I guess a plus in my partner.

Here’s the problem, I’m traditional when it comes to dating (gentlemanly things like opening the door for her, paying on the first date, picking her up, that stuff). But when it comes to flirting, giving hints, and initiating intimacy I’m extremely submissive and shy. Like I basically blush and start acting nervous when girls flirt with me. Last girl I hooked up basically climbed on top of me and manhandled me the whole night, and she initiated the flirting. However this girl doesn’t seem like it (or maybe she is, I don’t know yet). I wanna flirt and be more aggressive, but it doesn’t come naturally with me unless the girl is dom.