I’ve just been curious lately. The more I look on Reddit the more I see Dommes describe their ideal sub as “hyper masculine, masculine but secretly submissive, muscle masculine” etc etc. I never see anyone seeking the “boyish-spirit shy guy” type personality. I’m not trying to complain it just makes me wonder what they imagine when they say that’s what they’re looking for because it rarely comes with a description it seems.

So if you’re a Domme into that type what does masculine mean to you? Do they look or act a certain way? Do they do certain things?

Edit: I feel like I may have expressed this post/question wrong. I’m not looking to change myself nor am I desperate for a partner, I’m pretty comfortable with who I am. I wasn’t trying to imply Dommes/Women are monoliths, I just wanted to get perspective that isn’t my own!