I'm not sure if this post fits the sub - so my apologies if it is slightly off. Straight off the bat - I am a guy, mid 30s, fit, hung, clean, white, dark hair, friendly, funny, eager to please...

I would really like to find someone who would enjoy controlling me over cams - but I don't really know where to look. I'm pretty new to this - but what I would be into is quite gentle - mostly cum control/denial, controlling whether I shave or not, and regular exhibitionism for someone who would enjoy that.

I've looked on gonewild, dickpickrequests, and a few others - but none of them are really what I am looking for. I am looking for someone I can actually talk to and make a bit more of a connection with, as she guides me to cum (or not) for her pleasure. Looks are really not important to me - I am more looking for someone who is dominant, and funny, and energetic, and likes to watch someone squirming on the edge under their control.

Do any of you have any recommendations for the best place to look, or how to go about finding someone in a safe manner? Thanks - S