My FWB and I switch and for almost the last month he’s been denied. The longest he had gone previously was about 13 days, and we really pushed it and I decided he was to be denied 4 whole weeks*. I actually tricked him and told him when his denial was to start, but I actually started it earlier than that. He didn’t even know that his last orgasm was going to be his last for a month.

I told him it was so he didn’t have to worry his little head about his last orgasm. That it was completely out of his control and now and all he had to worry about was pleasing me by being a good denied boy and holding back his orgasms for me.

We’ve had some close calls. One time he was fucking me and got soooo close. He pulled out and hung on to his edge for what felt like forever. If I was a more strict domme, I probably would’ve had to punish him and extended his denial because he had the smallest of ruins. One weak and certainly not pleasure dribble of cum leaked from his cock that I own.

He argued it wasn’t a ruin, even tho he did cum the smallest amount. Luckily for him, I love when he fucks me so deep in my pussy, otherwise I would’ve added on to his sentence. He knew that cumming without permission would add 2 months to his sentence. I was very serious and wanted him to know how harsh the consequences would be if he broke the rules.

Because it was the first and only time he had a questionable ruin, this being his longest time denied, and because I’m such a sucker for a whimpering hard aching good boy, I decided the lack of pleasure from his small ruin was punishment enough. I want him to succeed And pushed him very hard that night, perhaps harder than I should’ve.

Another time he almost came from me lightly slapping his balls. That was hot 🥵🥵

Almost every time I’ve been with him this past month, I also make him thank me for denying him. It works both of us up so much! Especially when he begs to cum, I make him look me in the eyes and loudly and clearly thank me for denying him. If he closed his eyes or got quiet, he had to do it again.

Then, perhaps the worst thing happened for him- he ended up needing to go on a trip for work and was going to be gone for over a week- including when he was supposed to be released.

Today I gave him the choice- to end his denial on his own on the agreed upon date OR to wait to see me and cum when I’m with him. I told him it is completely up to him, that I had a preference, but I would respect whatever he picked. He chose to wait until we can see each other! Made me so very happy to hear that.

I cannot wait to work him up. Tease and edge him and to watch and be there as he cums in the first time in over a month. Knowing that two weeks ago he was begging and whining that he couldn’t last a whole month, and now that it is here, he’s choosing to wait even longer? Brings me such pride and joy!

His denial has also utterly reawaken my sex drive, which had been significantly less a month or two previous. I feel absolutely privileged to help him on this denial journey. I cannot wait for him to get his release.

• we have discussed this for a while. We utterly trust each other and both feel comfortable and safe communicating in and out of scenes. His safety and well being are my topmost priority. 13 days to 4 weeks of denial is a big jump and not something decided without thorough consideration.
  

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