I swear to god every time I open my reddit I have a "I'm giving up" or "Do any doms like X" or "Why can't I find a mommy" post. And I think it's dishonest to call them anything but pity posts because it's very clear you're just trying to get a dom to message you. When I look into your profile and 80% of it is you looking for a "mommy" that just tells me you're not looking for anything serious, you're looking to satisfy your sexual needs.

These "mommies" you seek are regular people you could be meeting if you just stuck around the community and interacted. Stop being on the lookout and let it fucking happen! And if you do want to post personal ads, post them where they should be, don't disguise them as "oh is anyone actually interested in subs like these?", THE ANSWER IS YES.

Maybe I'm being too much of a dick about it, but it just pisses me off seeing these posts show up every single day, made by people with 0 investment into actually learning the basics. Desperation isn't cute, being that insecure isn't cute, self pity isn't cute. Stop acting like you deserve a "mommy" just because you're lonely, and actually do something besides pity posting.

And to everyone who DMs doms and disrespects them by calling them titles unprompted, forces their submissiveness on them, does not respect their boundaries or uses them as a kink dispenser. Fuck you.

PS: I'm well aware the last issue applies to doms who DM subs too, just keeping it in context.