Alittle bit about me, I'm 5' 11", 185lbs, muscular bad bod and I usually attract the average person. In all my past relationships I've been the more dominant person, and my job requires me to be very abrasive and "in charge".

However, I find myself looking for someone who is more dominant and can take charge. Someone that is decisive and can tell me exactly how to make them happy because that's all I want to do. I love to please and sometimes it's hard to figure out how to do that with the "average" woman.

So, how can I tell if someone I just met is like that? I don't want to string anyone along and waste anyone's time.

I know this might be a dumb question, but any advise would be greatly appreciated!