My orgasms are too intense, very, not in a hot way lol. Ever since I started masturbating to Femdom this has started happening, sometimes it lays me out for 3 days unable to do anything, just waiting for the fatigue to go away so I could go on with my life. After some consultation (with a very knowledgeable friend of mine), it was put to light that the reason for this drop is rooted in a lack of safety in my relationship to Femdom, so the drop is my body's sigh of relief. I've noticed a lot of truth in this, not only with this issue, but over my life overall.

Here's where Gentle Femdom comes in. I noticed as soon as I moved away from the extreme humiliating femdom and started taking in a gentle approach, I felt healing, safety throughout the experience, a very big reduction in the drop, if any, without losing the amazing orgasms. That body flutter from being called "Honey" or "Sweetie" lasting post orgasm. It's amazing. Although I still feel the heavy drop sometimes, I can feel it improving and im very happy with the progress.

I want to share this in case anyone has seen or experience something similar. It's changing my life, it no longer feels hopeless. Especially if you were like me, dabbling in Extreme Femdom while lurking the Gentle Femdom and overlooking how amazing it can be by comparing the highs and adrenaline. I saw a post a while back from a GentleDomme being hurt by how her submissive keeps pushing her to humiliate him severely for that high, while she felt bad about it the whole time, and I really wished I could share this with both of them so that the sub would understand what they're giving up, and to boost confidence in the Gentledomme about how amazing she is as a force of nature and safety in her own gentle ways.