I'm just a competent, happy to be here, and intense sort of guy. One of my pros and cons when it comes to dating is that I tend to treat dates and people I want to date like I treat my friends

And I'm the sort to cook a nice dinner, like chicken bacon shrimp alfredo, for my weekly DnD group. The DnD game I run because no one else wanted to run, so I volunteered

I'm 90% certain putting in that level of effort towards someone I've planned a first date with has chased some women off, but I can't help it 🤷‍♂️. It's trivial for me to plan things, to do things, and if I like you, I want to make you happy

So when I'm in bed with a submissive women, I feel myself very naturally fall into a dominant role. Makes her happy, and I feel good about that

I haven't yet been with a dominant woman, but I feel like it would be mostly the same. The only thing I can imagine myself worrying about is that I'm not doing enough to her to make this a good experience. But a couple stern "you don't move unless I tell you to"s should snap me out of it

Don't get me wrong, I do have limits and expect them to be respected. Like no pegging for me, back door is exit only. And if you want to inflict pain, good luck

I'm also glad I have the sort of personality that super clashes with people who would otherwise take advantage of my kindness. People who turn out to be bad for me never last more than a month or two