Like seriously? now with all the Findoms and Scammers its literally impossible to find one, how did u find urs? Idk it's soo hard to do it. I don't like Findoms personally, and it's geniunly tough to find a well behaved, hygienic, dominant, open and caring dom. GFD is soo harder then I thought! Why just whyy

It now feels like I did some crime by deciding to explore the submissive side of mine and GFD

Not at all looking for a kink dispenser! But an actual geniune Loving being!

Plz share ur experiences, and thoughts and if u got a way to geniunly get into this lifestyle, plz share! Thanks and have a nice day! ☺️

I m a dom leaning switch.

I don't really wanna lose hope!

Here's a hug if u r having a bad day🫂🫂

Edit: This post doesn't mean Findoms aren't genuine Edit2: One really kind Reddietor said what am I bringing to the table!

So honestly I have worked alot on my body and got some significant changes over the last two years and I m still in the journey! I did lose weight and gained muscles, also I tried learning about GFD and I talked with people who are into that lifestyle, known about experiences, but I still consider myself a beginner and not ashamed of that.

I m a learner and I believe when I get a Domme she is the one I can rely on in educating me more and more about the concepts and love languages of this particular lifestyle, mentally I m tough and I have a lifestyle where I try keeping myself away from all the intoxications.

I workout, yoga, and have a decent mental health and really happy where I m, other then all this I m a child like guy, I love attention and talking alot with people I m close with, I like Caring about them, asking tiny details about their day, about their week, month, life, relationships, I can be friend when they need me, I can be a listener, being kind to people, understanding them and their lives is something I like, I m kinky and I really like exploring, I m a type of guy who loves exploring different styles and stuff, this doesn't mean I can't stick to one I definitely can, but I got a curious ass.

this post I made was just to express my own personal thoughts on how it can be really difficult for subs to find doms, thanks.