None of the women I've ever been with have been dominant. Mostly they've been pretty submissive, with only one or two cases where they were at least good at playing the dominant role. It's sorta become my White Whale, and I passively browse two dating apps, hoping to get lucky and find my dream girl.

Today, for the first time in my life, I came across someone relatively local who was giving off dominant vibes, and to make things even better, she appeared to be into similar kinks, one of which being feedism. I decided to send a simple "hey" and she actually responded and we started talking and I was getting a good feeling about her. I confirmed she was in fact very dominant and I was very excited.

I knew what I did next was a gamble, but I was feeling lucky. I agreed to send her some money so she could get a nice meal. I should have expected what came next, but I was hopeful this was an opportunity for a great connection. She didn't ask for a specific amount, so I sent her $42 which I thought was pretty reasonable for my first tribute to someone I just started talking to. (Also, 42 is a great number lol)

She complained about how much I sent her! 🚩🚩🚩 She wanted double that to pay for groceries. I totally respect wanting to eat healthier and not get fast food, but I really don't make a lot which I explicitly mentioned, and you can get a fair amount of groceries with $42. She got pretty bratty about it and insisted multiple times to send her more money. Now, I respect the hustle and the bratittude, but I'm pretty much a modern day peasant and lack the ability to accommodate that. It's likely that it never was going to become anything more and it was just a scam and wouldn't have mattered how much money I have.

To be perfectly honest, I love and admire that women can actually pull that off, but financial domination is not something I'm into nor am I capable of actually affording it. The whole experience has really dampened my spirits. I know there are dommes out there that don't pull that kinda stunt, but more and more it just seems less and less likely that I'll ever meet or connect with someone like that. Anyway, rant over, thank you for listening to this gullible sub's tale and I wish yall better luck than mine lol.