I was active in this sub around 2 years ago, looking to spice up my relationship with my gf and try new things as a subby boy. I’m a switch at heart, but I always felt a bit uncomfortable taking on the traditional male dom role, especially with a woman. I didn’t really understand why.. being dominant sounded really appealing to me, but just didn’t feel right in practice.

Fast forward two years and I have my answer! Am a girl now:3 (side note: this sub and exploring my submissive & feminine side was a big part of the beginning of that journey, so thanks yall!!<3) I’m also single now, and really opening up my sexuality in all sorts of new ways. And I find that as a woman, I like being dominant very much! Especially soft domme! I have a play partner I get to be subby with, but he is 100% stone top, and I’ve been wanting to explore my domme side again lately. Trying out the sorts of things I was always uncomfortable with before.

I guess I’m wondering where to start? I see a good amount of trans sub representation on communities like these, but not that much for trans dommes. I know this place is welcoming and friendly to all, but I also know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s totally valid! I just wonder if there’s a community out there for transfem dommes and folks who are interested in them? I’m pan and into both girls and guys. I honestly don’t have a preference as long as they’re submissive and into a (relatively new) trans girl who is just starting to fully explore her domme side