I really don’t know where to go with this, but I felt maybe it’d help if I ask for here how any other dom deals with this. We’re both online and have been in this dynamic for about a year or so now, and I’ve been getting busier, especially with school and work. We both have a three hour time difference, so when one wants to play, the timing is way off where I’ll be at work and he’ll be messaging that he wanted to be played with. Which I couldn’t do, so I usually ask him to wait until later when I’m free. I’ll admit, it’s been tougher, mainly due to my schedule. I guess last night was the last straw because we were messaging and I kept expressing I couldn’t talk and have much free time last night because I had work late and ended up spending time with my siblings. I felt terrible having to say no to him, but I couldn’t force myself out of those situations, so I had him tease and edge cause that’s what we were talking about having him trained. We already had set rules of him edging while I’m away, and how he was allowed to orgasm if he wanted, so I ended up falling asleep. I was very wrong, because he unfriended me without saying anything.

I feel really shitty that I didn’t have time for him, especially recently. But I really really liked him. I felt we worked really well, and he was amazing. I don’t know if it’s selfish of me or something, but I really wanted to be with him more. I really didn’t want us to end like that. But I put myself in his position and I could understand where he’s coming from. And I feel so terrible about it. I really don’t know where else to go. Maybe any other doms have advice on how to handle timing next time? Do you guys schedule your playtimes with your subs? And maybe in general any advice or stories you would have would help a lot🥺