So like, as the title said. I have a tendency to be very confident and dommy when single, and I’ve been told I do really good scenes and people usually wanna worship me etc. But I notice kinda losing all that confidence when Im in a relationship and I don’t get enough reassurance outside of the bedroom. After my last relationship I just kinda have been losing that confidence. My ex completely lost interest in doing anything subby aside from saying “woof” to being called a good boy. And when we were breaking up they blurted out something along the lines of “I just thought you were more confident” which they apologized to later on, but it really hurt. I feel like im not even asking that much, just some sort of reassurance that i am wanted, effort to make plans. Some sort of short daily phone calls, goodnight texts... am i supposed to just always be confident, and independent? I’m a bit of a needy person tbh, But i also provide a lot like gifts and thoughtful date plans, compliments ? I am just feeling pretty hopeless because I’m struggling to fit with the fem sub box, while wanting the traditional marriage and kids type of lifestyle, and everyone around me seem to not want kids at all. On top of that the anxious attachment :/ are there any needy doms out there in happy relationships? I’m trying really hard to be working with a therapist and stuff its just sadly that type of attachment can only be healed through a very reassuring relationships.