I’m not trying to find anyone here, but I’m just tired of searching. I go to the in person adult events, I’m on dating apps, but where do I actually meet subs into gentle femdom/flr? It feels impossible. Where do the subs actually hang out?? The in person events tend to have more “traditional” subs who want the mean mistress, and, at least in my area, I’m not the only gentle fem top looking for someone. I’m demisexual, so I very rarely can keep the interest of a sweet subbie at kink clubs because I can’t do pick up play. I just want my sweet subbie to cuddle and adore and sweetly torment. (Please don’t flood my inbox, I’m really asking for advice on where to meet people, not to be flooded by people who are super far away. I want someone I can actually cuddle irl)