I woke up one morning and this term came to me- being a mirl, a male girl. I"m also a tomboy type of girl most of the time. But it resolved all my internal questioning, I guess, and is a simple explanatory term for who I am. This outfit is one for girly girl times, and I love and feel so right in that I feel comfortable being out and about, like any self-confident girl would. It has taken me a few years to understand fully that there really aren't any good arguments against being who we are with respect to gender and anatomy, and that peace of mind makes it so I don't get flak from people- they are startled at first, and then since I am behaving perfectly normally, everything smoothes out and life goes on!

Yes, I am a mirl

Full disclosure, the exception is with my wife, who really is opposed and even after 5 years does not want to acknowledge my genderfluidity. I glow feminine when I am relaxing. When I have fixit jobs and physically demanding activities I am typically masculine.