Earlier today I got accused of being biphobic, and spreading biphobia because my definition of Bi means Two.

I got accused of this even after saying that no matter who you are, or who you tell me you are… that I accept and support you (unless you’re a douchecanoe…). You could tell me that you’re Bi, and attracted to 4 genders on the spectrum. Fine. Cool. Let’s have a fuckin bubble tea!

Here’s the deal.

This person who accused me of this, was trying to make my box, fit them, because we grow up in society trying to fit ourselves into boxes. I’m this, I’m that, I’m trans, I’m bi, I’m pan, I’m a firefighter, I’m a computer programmer, I’m straight, I’m gay, I wish I was a little bit taller, I wish I was a baller, I wish I had a girl, if I did, I would call her! 🤣

FUCK the boxes. Be who you are. Stop trying to label yourself. Stop trying to fit into everyone’s box like you’re a check box on a multiple choice scan card for a history exam.

Fuck the boxes. If someone gets 0 on a test, they say they got a “perfect” score. Fitting into everyone’s boxes, or trying to make their boxes fit you… isn’t going to make you perfect. And it’s not gonna make the world perfect.

We are humanS. Beautiful humans! If we are anything, we are NOT a box. We do not fit into a box. We cannot make other boxes fit us.

Accept yourself, celebrate yourself, celebrate others who are themselves.

Perfection is not something someone can say you are or are not. It cannot be given. It cannot be taken away.

My definition of perfection is this: It’s two fold: 1) never stop trying to improve yourself, and the lives of those around you.

2) actually DO #1. Every fucking day.

Just because my definition of something does not match yours… does not mean that I accept you or celebrate you any less.

Be true to yourself. And be kind to everyone.

❤️Jess!