When I got back home from college for the summer I decided to get on an app that’s intended to meet other bears in the community, One of those days during my commute from my internship to home, I happened to open the app and this profile messaged me.

We started messaging back and forth and we immediately hit it off and decided to set up a time where we could meet and hook up, I thought this would be a one time thing but the hook up went great, Both of us had a lot of fun and honestly he’s really hot and he thinks I’m pretty cute too. I do need to say that I’m 19 in college (Currently taking a semester away because I got a good job for the fall) and he’s in his late 50s, We both work in the arts so we have that in common and the way that he talks to me about his job amazes me as he’s so freaking smart and that’s very sexy.

Anyways, We both connected in a way, We have some sort of sense of humor that we both understand and the sex is amazing. We’ve been hooking up almost once a week by exception of the weeks where we’ve both been out of town, I also invited him to my work to watch a performance of a show, that was a cute moment too.

The bad thing is, He’s married, in an open relationship. He’s currently not living with his partner due to work but they’ve been together for years. I honestly really like him but I obviously don’t expect him to pick me over his partner, but I do sense that he has some sort of feelings towards me, and I don’t know how to go about it.

I’ve never been in a “Daddy/son” relationship which is what I see as a possibility since he’s already taken. I also don’t know how I would even bring it up, but I also don’t know if i’m just too in my head and overthinking him just being a nice person. Thoughts?