Hey. So I am a 25 yr old guy looking to get into a serious relationship with an older man. However, the problem I’m facing is that the country I’m in does not have appropriate people, in the sense, being gay is taboo so all older men are mostly married and not open to being in a serious relationship. All they want is a quick orgasm and off they go. I’ve been on Reddit gyo dating for a while however the distance between me and most doesn’t let anything proceed as I can’t visit and they are unwilling to make the effort to come down and meet me I’ve tried all dating apps, nothing is working. Any suggestions on how to get a good old man for a living relationship would be most appreciated

Thanks in advance :)