I (ftm 33) usually hook up with younger tops, sometimes as young as 20/21, and I love it, I don’t feel the power imbalance I did with the older guy I’ve tried hooking up with. Well, turns out the older guy I hooked up with sucked. I met an older man, 61, through a younger guy I hooked up with who highly recommended the man. My eyes have been opened to a completely new world of possibilities. Not only did I feel respected, I felt myself surrender to his experienced touch and compentent body. I had to put in a little more work than I do with a young guy but it was worth the trade off. Was it life altering or world changing? No. But it did open my eyes to something I didn’t know I’d find pleasurable. It was definitely as validating and affirming and hot as sex with a younger guy. I’ve always found older men attractive, just got scared by one being a jerk. Glad I got passed one bad experience and I’m excited to expand my experiences in the future.