I’m 31 and been on a look out for daddies (chubby daddy bears to be specific). I get called ‘boy’ and it seems to be the norm in the leather community to indicate that this is a sub role and not necessarily the ‘younger partner’. I’m flexible with that being vers and typically like to switch positions with a daddy.

But I like to be called ‘son’ more than ‘boy’ because to me that is more intimate and endearing to the point where it gets me aroused.

I sometimes feel like they are hesitant to use ‘son’ as an endearment (which I LOVE btw) in a conversation because maybe I am too old to be called one. I’m not even sure if it’s the age or it’s the look because I’m a bear and have been called ‘daddy’ by the younger folks. It’s nice to hear but I’m almost never interested in guys my age or younger.

I think the question lies here for the daddies of this sub:

1. Do you feel the same kind of endearment to call your younger partner ‘son’ in bed?

2. I can understand that a strictly dom daddy would feel more empowered to call a partner ‘boy’ than a ‘son’ but are there things/traits that make you avoid calling them a ‘son’?