I (30) have been seeing this guy (51) for 3 months now. It’s been honestly great for me and very healthy, most recently he mentioned how someone he knows was trying to date him, but he said he wanted to give us a chance, which felt really nice. We just got back from a weekend get away from his cabin, and our chemistry around each other made me realize that I like him, a lot! He would always cook for me, and I would clean, we would have long ass conversations, swim together, he let me drive his boat, it was just such a remarkable experience … We just did so many different things that I was like “this could be amazing, this man could be a great friend before a partner” which’s exactly what I am looking for in life. Yesterday night we talked a bit about our previous relationships, and I mentioned how I don’t think I could be monogamous in a long run… And he said “I don’t think I could be either, also with our age gap, I want you to have as much fun as you want, you’re young and I don’t want to take that away from you” and that made me feel so good, the way that he sees me, for who I am, and compliments me made me feel so validated, and in a way loved/supported. What are your guys thoughts? I want to continue taking things slow btw.