Kind of a confession but most of my hookups are bit spontaneous and in the moment. I don’t look for relationships per se but make some connection with the person I’m with and just enjoy the freedom to explore until I don’t want to.

The reason I post here is because I tend to hookup with men much older than myself who call themselves daddy bears.

I probably should try to avoid using porn to get off now that I’m sexually active. Part of me feels like that might be the reason I upset people and end up having them come instead of it being mutual. I come almost everyday with porn when I’m by myself.

How do y’all prepare for hookups? Do you wait until your balls are full? Am I being disrespectful if I hooked up knowing that I might not be able to come?