I’m 19 he’s 35. When we first met, our sex life was pretty good. It happened frequently in a week and he was spontaneous with it. He switched jobs around March to a higher position and let’s just say our sex life went down hill. I started being once a week to almost never. We haven’t had sex since mid May. I brought up the conversation calmly last night about how I enjoy sex with him and how sex with him is always amazing. I told him I miss the intimacy we shared and that I know work can be crazy and I want to support him in anyway possible.

He responded with “I’m just not in the mood for that right now, I have a lot on my mind and don’t like having sex if mentally and emotionally I’m not there”.

I empathize with him because I know his job is a little stressful but I also have needs and I do not want to start resenting him because I’m not getting my needs met. Should I wait a while to see if any change occurs with him before bringing up the conversation again? I really like him and honestly I’m in love with him.

Any advice is appreciated!!