This past month I had the pleasure of hooking up with three younger men, all late late teens to early 20s (all 18 ). Decent conversations were had with all three prior to meeting. In fact, texting took place over a month with two. All three are into older men. I’m a very relaxed, kind, no pressure kinda of guy. Lots of foreplay prior to intercourse. I bottomed for two, topped for the third. However, the common theme was that all 3 had trouble getting and staying hard. The two tops were definitely nervous, though they both did nut.

My question to young and old alike is have you had similar experiences? What might be the underlying issue? Is there anything I can do better? I’m genuinely perplexed.