I’ve been noticing a lot of older men like their boys slim and smooth. I never really thought about this when I was a couple years younger because I was not as chubby and hairy as I am now. I’ve been called a cub by peers and sometimes a ‘daddy’ which is weird because this little daddy needs a daddy himself lol.

It kinda breaks my heart a little that I’ve zoned out from the kind of guys that the older guys are into.

I still am very much attracted to older men, well probably chubby like me. I’d however think that is just the initial spark that would bring us together and people change in mind and body over time. But passions don’t and I think that is what is gonna keep them together when it is shared.

I guess it’s just a part of aging. Life is just gonna go on, hopefully for those that are single out there you’ll meet someone who’ll love you for you as much as you love them for them.

Anyway, just wanted to check in to see if there are any other 30s or 40s younger people here who faced similar transition.