I have always been attracted to men aged 50 . When I was 18 to 30 I had zero issues with getting dates or hook ups nor forming relationships.

Now I've reached my mid 30s I've become completely invisible, totally ignored and sometimes even receive nasty comments and abuse from older men I message.

I had a long term relationship of 5 years with a man who dumped me for somebody younger.

This happened again with a relationship of 2 years.

Most men 50 seem to be only interested in men aged 18-30 or (as expected) men their own age.

Every year I've been over 30 the amount of interest I receive has dwindled to nothing. I either get told I'm too young or mostly too old by older men.

I am fairly good looking, I look about 30, relatively fit, own home, full head of hair and car, and good job. I get loads of attention from men my own age and I wish more than anything I found them attractive but I could no more have intimacy, sex or relationships with them than I could with a woman. I honestly feel liking older men is an absolute curse now. I feel I'm going to be alone and close to celibate until I reach my 50s. If I could wish anything I would wish to be free of my cursed solo attraction to older men.

I don't expect universal adoration, but it is crushing to be undesirable to an entire demographic whom you have a solo attraction to.

I honestly don't feel it's something to celebrate unlike this whole Reddit, it's fun when you're in your twenties and then it becomes bleak and depressing when you basically get dumped on the scrapheap due to age.

Guys in your twenties here, beware and prepare for this, and if you aren't too far down the rabbit hole consider trying to form attraction to men your own age before it's too late.