I just want to take a moment to talk about something I've noticed. Right now on the dating subreddit the top post is from a younger man looking for someone older to be with. He specifically wants someone "creepy".

A lot of times the older men, like myself, are described with terms like creepy or dirty or perverted. Seemingly because they still have an interest in sex. And these words are coming from the people who say they have an interest in older dudes. But I guess there's nothing dirty or wrong about a younger guy liking sex.

What's going on here. I'm starting to despair that any of these young guys care about us as people and just see us as fetish fuel.