I may have posted something like this before, but I need some new perspective…

I (36) have been with my partner (70) for several years at this point. He’s never been very touchy-feely, and as both of our ages have progressed, our libido has slowed. And that’s all completely fine with me.

What I’m curious about is his lack of intimacy and affection.

I know there is a generational difference between us, and there are some things that don’t line up there, but this one is getting to be very hard for me. I’ve made it very clear to him that it’s important to me, but nothing changes. And I am realizing that I really need physical affection.

The issue is I love this man - but when I think about forever, I know I have two choices: 1) Live with it or 2) Leave.

I just needed to throw this out there. Would love to hear what you all have to say - especially you older guys -

Do you think it’s just him being older that’s causing this issue? Or is it more than that? I’ve been led to believe that older men have a more difficult time with intimacy and affection.