i want to have fun and start experimenting with my sexuality, but i am always so scared of it not being safe bc i wouldnt really Know the person i was talking to/potentially sleeping with. on the sex side id be totally fine not knowing them well but i also don't want to be murdered u know. how do yall get over this feeling or take precautions to be safe? i will honestly take any and all advice bc it pains me sometimes to turn down guys asking to meet up and i just want to be able to have fun like any of cis gay guy would be able to.

edit: would like to clarify when i say murdered i dont actually mean that, im just worried about my physical safety (i dont think my normally sarcastic way of speaking came across lol)