I have been needing an ego boost the last bit and have been hooking up with guys (orally) without making my gender a big deal. I even accidentally went stealth with an older guy and I was mad with power. Since then I’ve joined several gay men’s groups on fb and Reddit, and I never mention being trans. I’m in one group called “Dads and Lads”, I’m 33 so I can be both! They posted a meme that said “post a selfie, if someone responds send them a 🍑 pic and they’ll leave a rating!” I’ve had twenty random men of all ages, not knowing I was trans, ask for my butt pics. Did I send them all pics? Maybe, maybe not. But it’s nice to be desired.