Just wanted to mention this bc I'm so pumped about it & maybe it'll inspire someone.

I have full control of my sub in terms of (among other things,) when he gets to jerk off &/or cum. As we both enjoy keeping him denied, he almost never gets to do either. Additionally, we'd love to have him caged permanently, but the best we've found for him are (some pretty sleek) metal chastity belts that aren't realistic for him to wear full time. This is all to say that we've spent the last 2 Locktobers wishing we could participate in a real way, but holding on for No Nut November. At this point however, every month is No Nut, so extended spans of orgasm denial aren't a special challenge anymore.

I recently had an idea for Locktober that turns everything on its head: a forced orgasm belt, the kind a magic wand straps into. The challenge is, he gets "locked" into that every day for an assigned setting, or no setting at all, as well as an assigned duration of time (I've been using dice to help decide) & giving him a chance to cum almost every day so he hopefully gets re-trained to expect & crave the possibility. Then, when NNN rolls around, he'll hopefully suffer.

I had him pay for the belt last month, but didn't tell him what it was. When it arrived, I treated the leather with Huberds bc it was mega stiff. he was SO PUMPED when I finally gave it to him. It's gender affirming to participate in Locktober (even if it's in a different way) & tbh I'm also proud of myself for having come up with a solution that's completely tailored to our dynamic.