I been single for a while now, and haven't been in a long term relationship since I broke up with my cheating ex back in 2019. I find a guy who seems to be interested but I was quick to learn it was just lust or that we was both lonely.

I am seeking advice on dating. I haven't had sex by choice since October and I am not tripping about it, but I do find myself lonely. I have met a few people online, but they not looking for a gay relationship because they either dl or in a relationship already. And I met one dude in person who liked me, but it was more for hook ups but after I turned him down for sex and explained why, we actually became friend except we have different life styles and our only bond ATM is food.

So should I delete my posts and start over, but I find not having pictures leads to empty dms and if I do get a message. We end up trading anyway. A sexual connection I know is important which is why I assume have profile nudes work, but at the sametime. How do I find a guy who wants to take there time and get to know me and find a connection?

I also been thinking of attending a gym again in hopes of finding a bro there but idk. I feel weird going to the gym looking for a bf although I don't mind the access to the weights, pool, and suana.