When it comes to women, I love being in control and love anal and vaginal sex. When it comes to men, I love oral and being a bottom. I was curious though, would I enjoy topping a guy if the situation was right? So I placed an ad on doublelist and explained the situation. One of the responses I got was from a nice guy. He was a first time bottom so we could try together. He was also younger than me which is what I likeed in my thoughts about topping..

He wanted it to be anon, so I was in my bathroom when he came in, got undressed and got on my bed doggy style. I wasnt hard yet and I tried to massage some firmness into my cock, but it just wasn't feeling exciting already. I walked up to him on my bed played with his ass cheeks a bit. I ran my fingers down his crack and massaged his balls. I grabbed the lube and worked my finger to his ass. I thought the playing and preparation would get me in the mood. He turned and went down on me and started to get me hard, it actually felt really good. I enjoyed his mouth for a bit and got pretty hard, and then I could feel myself starting to lose my erection. I pulled out and tried to get my condom on but I was soft before I could get the condom on. We tried for about 45 min. Me masturbating and him blowing me, but the dynamic just didnt feel right. After a while I told him it wasnt going to happen, but I would be happy to finish him off. He didn't want me going down on him and I tried to stroke him off, but nothing. I couldn't get him to cum. So we finally called it. I apologized again and he left.

So now I know. I like the guy I'm with to be in control and I greatly enjoy pleasing and being topped. So I'll leave that to the tops from now on.