I used to be big into control play. I would meet guys online that wanted to give up control. They would have me control different parts of their day (Apps, outfits, spending and even webcams). They would get off by going to search porn and their phone being restricted.

Then they would send me photos of each task they completed. They knew that any photo they sent would be added to a Dropbox that was shared with them.

The fun part came next. This was all consensual.

Once the Dropbox was getting full, then they would be worried it would get released and would feel owned and have to make sure that I was satisfied.

My Amazon account always had a gift card balance, or if I wanted something, they loved seeing what they bought for me.

I have a dresser full of yoga clothes for when I workout from them.

Others would want me to try and find a friend/relative and if I did, then would pay a ransom so that I did not reach out to them.

The rush the “victim” got was very beneficial to me.