This was almost 10 years ago now, but I still think back on it often, as it was one of the hottest and most unusual (for me) encounters I had. This was during the glory days of Craigslist’s men seeking men (RIP). I was 23, living in the Phoenix metro, and still very closeted. I’d occasionally post on Craigslist searching for quick hookups for head and if it went that far, I was vers/bottom. I had no shortage of men responding to my ads. We’d email back and forth a few times, sharing a few photos, and then deciding who was traveling and who was going to host. One such ad is what led to the following encounter:

This guy responded to my ad saying he wanted to “fool around” but had never done it with a guy before. He sent a photo showing his chest and body, wearing his loose boxer briefs and showing off his very nice bulge. He was 30, white, just a small patch of hair in the center of his chest and a smooth belly. He had that perfect soft belly - he worked construction so was not out of shape, but wasn’t in the gym by any means. In the picture you could see the beginning of his pubes just above the waistband of his Hanes underwear that didn’t look trimmed, but also weren’t unruly. I immediately was so turned on and was dying to see his cock (and his face). We didn’t share face pictures before, so I had no idea what he looked like, so my imagination just ran wild. I typically didn’t meet without a face pic, but I was too horny to care at this point.

This was after 7pm on a Thursday in July in Phoenix, so hot as hell outside but still not dark out. He said he had gotten home from work earlier and had been drinking a few beers. He said he could host and I told him I’d have to shower quick and then could be over. He only lived 3 miles away from me so I said I’d be there in 30 minutes.

I pulled up to the apartment complex. It was an older complex that was a bunch of small 2-story buildings clustered in the middle around open green space. All of the first floor apartments had patios and second story had small decks with parking around the perimeter of the whole complex. It was starting to get dark, but I found a spot to park, sent him a text that I was there, and began walking around looking for his apartment. I wasn’t new to hook ups, but I still always got nervous before meeting someone new. Since it was July and still 100 degrees, the folks who didn’t have good A/C were all out on their decks or patios and I felt like everyone was eyeing me and knew why I was there.

I finally found his apartment. It was a second floor apartment with an outdoor staircase that led up to the 2 second floor apartments on that side of the building only, so it was pretty private. I was nervous and trying not to sweat, but it was so damn hot out. I was hoping he had good A/C and also that he wasn’t the Craigslist killer. I knocked lightly and pretty quickly unlocked and opened the door.

He gave me a smirk then looked down and said “hey, come on in.” It seemed like he wanted to get me in quickly so his neighbor didn’t see me. He was a couple inches taller than me, wearing a plain dark t-shirt and tan, slightly baggy cargo shorts. He was good looking for sure. Very blue collar, construction-worker type and definitely not someone I’d suspect being interested in fooling around with a guy. He had light brown hair cut pretty short, but not buzzed and he had facial hair. I’m not typically attracted to goatees, but his suited him. His apartment had A/C but if you know Phoenix in July, it never is really cool enough. He had almost all of the lights off, but the huge tv was blaring and bright. Small place, but about what I’d imagined a “straight” construction worker’s place to look like.

He offered me a beer, which I knew he was already a few deep from his messages to me earlier. He opened the fridge and I could see a 30 rack of Bud Light. Not something I’d choose to drink, but I could choke it down as long as it was cold. And knew it’d help settle my nerves. I could tell he had a buzz, but was not drunk by any means. We sat on the couch in front of the tv and chatted as we both drank our beers. The place was tidy, and wasn’t bare bones empty and seemed like he had lived there for a bit. He mostly talked about his job and the crazy hours he works and how brutal it can be in the heat. He definitely seemed nervous but I could tell he was relaxing more as we talked. I was honestly shocked he wasn’t the type to just get straight to it, and have me in and out within 20 minutes. He grabbed us both another beer and then said he wanted a cigarette and so he was gonna step out onto the deck. I don’t smoke cigarettes and they can be a turn off, but I was too horny after seeing the photo of his body and bulge to let that ruin it. We sat on the deck and talked while he smoked his cigarette quickly because it was too damn hot to stay out there long.

After heading back inside, he sat down in the center of the couch with his beer. I sat down next to him, and started asking what he was into. He said he’s never done anything with a guy, but he had been so horny lately and wanted a good blowjob. I told him, “perfect, that’s what I love to do.” I told him how much the picture he sent turned me on. I set my beer down on the end table and then my left hand down on his thigh on top of his shorts. I got down onto my knees and then looked up at his face to see if he was okay with what I was doing. He looked nervous but his eyes seemed to indicate “keep going.” My hands slid up his legs and up the openings of his shorts. I rubbed and squeezed his thighs. I could feel he was a little sweaty the closer to his cock I got. I then rubbed my hands over the outside of his shorts and could feel his cock underneath. Not hard, but not soft either. I unbuttoned his shorts and then he stood up to slide them down. I took them all the way off of him. He was wearing blue boxer briefs. You could tell they were a little old as they weren’t super snug, but not as loose as boxers. As he was standing there over me, I pressed my face into his crotch, reached around to grab his ass with both of my hands so I could apply more pressure and feel his warm cock against my face through his underwear. I exhaled my hot breath on his cock as I looked up at him. He was looking down at me. Slightly glossy eyes and his lips were nice and wet in the glare of the tv. He smelt so good. A hint of laundry detergent but some musk and sweat since we had just come in from outside. I knew his cock was going to be perfect. He slid his underwear off, then kicked them off of his foot before sitting back down on the couch, leaning back while my hands rubbed all over his thighs as I just stared at his beautiful cock in front of me. He had nice balls hanging loose since it was warm. He had a little bit of hair on his balls. He seemed more naturally hairless on his balls than if he had shaved. His cock was semi hard and laying on top of his balls. Big enough that the tip of his cock was touching the couch. I was fully clothed and I had to adjust my cock because I was already hard just from seeing him.

I kissed up his left thigh and my right hand rubbed over his belly and up his shirt. I kissed lightly over the top of his pubes. Breathed in deep to smell him and fuck he smelt so good. His dick twitched and I started softly kissing down the shaft of his cock as I squeezed his thighs. My hands haven’t touched his bare cock yet, but when my lips get to the tip of his cock, I circled my tongue around, kissed the tip and then took him slowly into my warm mouth. When I first took him in my mouth he was at half mast. By the time I slowly pushed his cock to the back of my throat, he was getting harder and harder. He had to have been 7-7.5” when fully hard a few seconds later, and it was the perfect thickness. Filled my mouth up and all I could think of was how good he’d feel inside of me. My right hand started massaging those perfect balls. My left hand I put at the base of his shaft, my thumb pressed just above his balls with my index finger applying pressure down the top side of his cock for a firm grip. I started sucking him slowly at first. Getting him nice and wet. I could hear him moan ever very slightly whenever I took him all the way into my throat and my nose and forehead were pressed against his body. I loved my nose being buried in his pubes.

I was still sucking slowly and then once his cock was really nice and wet I began following my mouth with a firm grip from my right hand. Just working his shaft up and down, working a little faster. Every other thrust I’d pause at the base and let his cock throb in my throat and then on the upward I’d circle my tongue around the head of his cock. He seemed to really be enjoying it but he stopped me and said “let’s go to the bedroom.”

The lights were off in the bedroom, but I could tell the queen size bed was unmade and clothes were all over the floor. Not cleaned up like the living room. He took off his shirt, got on the bed and laid back with his head on the pillows. I couldn’t see much. I was still in my shorts and t-shirt. It was definitely warmer in the bedroom, but at least there was a fan.

I climbed on the bed and found his cock in the dark and got back to sucking him. Alternating my hands, I’d take him out of my mouth and ask how it felt. He was moaning “ffuuuuccckk yes” and said, “just keep going, you know exactly what you’re doing.” I was starting to sweat from my forehead and had to wipe it on his bedding. Meanwhile I’m so turned on by how hot he is, how satisfied he sounds moaning as his cock is inside my mouth and knowing that his construction buddies probably have no idea their buddy likes a guy sucking his cock as much as he does.

I get really into sucking him and his cock is so sloppy wet. I take him out of my mouth and start stroking his cock as I sit up for a quick break. My left hand cups his balls and then I apply pressure to his taint. I spit on the head on his cock and feel it completely fill up the grip of my hand. Such a perfect cock and I’m so in love with his dick. I want it inside my mouth and in my ass. He’s got a cock that you’d let ruin your life. He has one hand over his eyes and rubbing his forehead. I can see him breathing heavy and his belly rising and falling quicker with each breath. “Fuck, I can’t wait to taste your cum,” I tell him just before I go back to sucking him. My left hand pressed against his taint still and then I move to put a firm grip at the base of his cock while I suck him and stroke him with my right hand. I know he’s getting close. I’ve got beads of sweat on my forehead but I know I can’t stop.

I’ve been rock hard this entire time. Haven’t touched myself at all. I’ve been kneeling on the bed in between his legs the entire time. To get a new angle, I took my right leg and put it over his left leg so I could straddle it and be at an angle while taking his cock in my mouth. I know he can feel my rock hard cock through my shorts against his shin as I’m bent over gagging on his cock. He’s moaning and says “I’m getting close.” This is where something new happens for me. As I’m sucking his cock, my own cock pressed against his leg I realize, “holy fuck, I’M going to cum.” I look up one last time while his cock is in my mouth and I can see his pubes, his sexy belly and his hands pressed against his chest and I lose it, I fucking explode in my underwear. It feels like the biggest load I’ve ever shot and it happened hands free and fully clothed. I immediately feel like my mind has gone entirely blank and I continue worshipping his cock. “Don’t stop, I’m gonna cum,” he moans. I am thrusting up and down on his cock. So perfectly wet and rock hard. I hold his balls in my left hand and then he takes his left hand, grabs the back of my head and lets out the hottest sounding moan of relief I’ve ever heard in my life at the same time that he shoots his load right in my mouth. I think I counted 4 shots of cum explode out of his thick cock and into my mouth. There was so much cum. I was in heaven. He tasted so damn good and I just kept it in my mouth. Swirled it around my tongue and mouth. If I had opened my mouth, it would’ve leaked out all back over his cock but I wanted it all. I swallowed every drop.

I put my mouth back on his cock and squeezed the head to get every last drop of cum that I lick up with my tongue and swallow. He had taken a pillow and covered his head and to wipe the sweat off of his face. It was still dark in the room, and I sat up and just said, “Oh my god. Your cock is incredible.” He chuckled and said, “that was the best fuckin head I think I’ve ever had. I can’t even move right now.”

I stare at his still hard cock flopped up against his pubes and his perfect balls hanging down onto the bed that I just drained. The amount of cum he shot into me is flashing through my brain and I’m just blown away. Then realize again, I just came in my own underwear.

“Can I use your bathroom?” I ask. I get up, walk into the bathroom, turn on the light, and grab some toilet paper. I unbutton my shorts and see in my briefs I have a complete fucking mess. It seems like the biggest load I’ve ever shot and it’s leaking through my underwear and my shorts. I try to clean up with the toilet paper and then I flush it down the toilet. Splash cold water on my face and then wash my hands since they smelt like my spit from just having sucked the best cock of my life. That’s when I realize the perfume on the bathroom counter. I look around the rest of the bathroom and see the pink loofah in the shower, the women’s body wash, shampoo, and hair brushes on the counter. Holy. Fuck. He’s got a girlfriend or a wife he didn’t mention. I didn’t notice anything before since it was dark in the bedroom. This just made it even hotter to me.

I walk back to the bedroom and a lamp has been turned on and he’s pulling up a different pair of mesh shorts (no underwear on) and I can see the imprint of his still semi-hard cock. He throws on his t-shirt he was wearing before and I tell him how incredible that was. He chuckles again, “that was exactly what I needed.” He didn’t necessarily rush me out the door like I expected, but because I had cum leaking through my shorts I wanted to get home. I didn’t want to make him feel awkward so I didn’t even mention the women’s items in the bathroom. He said he had to work early tomorrow and walks me to the front door of his apartment, walks outside first to make sure no neighbors are out even though it’s fully dark by this time. He says, “I had a great time. Thanks.” I walk out to my car, drive home, and get into the shower to clean my own cum off of me and put my clothes in the wash. And that is the story of the first time I came in my own pants.