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I need help....
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Iā€™ve been in a relationship for two months now (LDR) and I feel like Iā€™m no longer have any interests in my boyfriend* anymore. I feel like me and him rushed too quickly.. we met via Tinder, talked for one month and decided to make ā€œusā€ official. For his part, he moves way too quickly.. at least for me. After the third week we being ā€œofficialā€ he said he loves me, which is way too fast. Idk what to do with that, so I changed our conversation topic. 2 weeks after that he started talking about marriage literally out no where. Though, I changed the topic yet again, but this time he continued to pursue the marriage topic. I was fed up so I decided to tell him to at least wait til I finish grad school. Because currently Iā€™m taking online summer classes, I used the coursework loads as an excuse to kind of avoiding him.

Now for some red flags that stood out, at least to me:

  1. He has a tendency to get angry with me when I choose to do my course work over FaceTime him, etc..

  2. I told him that I choose school over everything because I value education over everything. So, I told him not to come in between/ask me to choose him or my education. But home boy literally always try to interfere my study time. Also because Iā€™m paying for grad school on my own and Iā€™m in a new field that I didnā€™t get my UG in.

  3. Out of no where, he asked me ā€œdo I see marrying a guy in the future?ā€ I was kind of taken back a little by that (?)

He also does things/said things in micro aggression ways that if I called him out I sound stupid..?

I need some opinions or advices about this ā€œrela-situationshipā€ I got myself into. What should I do/say? Should I at least wait before making an executive decision and break with him?

*I found his second FB account and he said his relationship status is single. I looked timeline and it was updated 2 hrs ago.

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