i am now in early 30’s and still have yet to experience a real relationship nor have I even been like highly sought after even if I wanted a promiscuous era. its starting to weigh hard on me the lack of matches that I get and attention from guys that arent straight and DL, experimenting & like me because i have softer features and long hair, etc. I never thought I was unattractive nor overly attractive, but I do feel like I look good enough to where someone relationship oriented would find me attractive by now. Dating apps especially make me feel insecure because of the lack of matches that I get, I don’t even get a chance to win someone over with personality. is it an asian thing in the gay community? lol especially on apps?