40yo married fella here. If I don't cum is it cheating? What if I just get on my knees to suck a dozen dicks? That is just being friendly and helpful, right?

The trouble is that my prostate loves stimulation and I cum super fast with my dildo. If I were blowing you and you asked to fill me out like a job application I would enthusiastically ride you. This, of course, would lead to me spraying thick ropes of cum all over your chest or the floor depending on the position! I think that might be too far?

I definitely don't want to cheat on my wife but I desperately want to be helpful and friendly! Anyone in central Illinois need some help?