Alright I know this sounds weird but hear me out.

Little context before I head to explain the title, I’m a 20yrs guy who have interest in being sub but haven’t got much experience or chance to put it in action. So I’m fairly new to this.

Now to the title, in my humble opinion, sex is more fun when there’s more bond; and this idea has definitely shaped how I view sub/dom. Sure, being dom-ed is fun but it doesn’t always make me feel subby (which might be a reason why I switch as well). To me, the presence of another sub or the bonding between me and another sub is the key to add more spice to d/s and extends the sub space for subs.

A little example would be when sub couple serving a same dom. You made your vow with your partner, decided to stay his side till death, love him as how you love yourself and now the two of you are gagging on another man’s dick while other sucks his balls. This idea or spirituality of you two vowed to be together so you can serve another man better is really wow to me.

So yeah, I guess my d/s journey is the kind that I cannot go alone