For background, I’m a tig welder in a factory, and for a while worked with an attractive divorce Dad in his early/mid 40’s. He’s a very respectful and genuinely sweet man. Well spoken, very attractive face and in shape (light dad bod but not an overhanging belly if you know what I mean), and an extremely attractive personality. I’d give him rides occasionally, never flirted or made a move on him. I like to be respectful towards straight men by not hitting on them or making them uncomfortable. He knew I was gay (I’m 100% out of the closet in and out of work despite living in rural Ohio), and was way nicer and friendlier than most of my male coworkers. So I considered him a friend. We had each other on Facebook. And he quit back in November to move in with his ex wife. He lived with his sister and she was mistreating him bad. He has no romantic or sexual relationship with his ex wife, they’ve been divorced 7 years and she’s remarried but his ex wife and her husband know how good of a person he is. He told me that he missed the town we lived in and having privacy. I offered him my spare room and bathroom. Complete privacy where he wouldn’t have to share a room with his son and could have as much company as he wanted. Including women if he wanted as long as they kept relations out of the commons area, I’d do the same. He said he’d hit me up on the offer when he got more money saved. We’ve been chatting on and off for months, and he’s gotten slightly sexual as I’ve made sure to compliment his work out progress and help him feel good about himself. Basically being respectful with complimenting and flirting where he doesn’t realized what I’m doing, and opens up on his own. Well today was the day. He told me he wasn’t gay, but if he was he’d come to me first for a blow job. I told him I appreciated that and Id do anything for a friend. He sent me a dick pic and said If I’m serious we could make it happen.