So im a top i sometimes would play with my ass alone and i wasnt having the best of luck with bottoms in my area the bottoms never really u know

So one day on grinder hella horny messaged a top saying u wanna show this top the bottom side of things he was confused at first then i re worded it and he was down. We talked for a few days cause i worked graves he worked days so it was hard to meet up. One day i woke up like 2 hours before work i messaged him saying im horny bring that dick here he showed up fast. He walks in and we start making out we get to the bed we start to 69 and hes going im ganna train u to be my bottom bitch and my dom side kicked in and i said make me bitch that did something to him he pushed me off him i get on my hands and knees and he started eating my ass and im telling him u better eat that ass better or u wornt get my hole he spits tongue fucked me for a good min. He started to lube up my ass and i go no not yet u didnt eat my ass that good and he goes this ass is mine so he goes sniff this it was poppers and i do and he slowly goes in and at first it hurt he was 8 so about ten mins of going slow i grab the poppers take a fat sniff and something came over me and i told him to fuck me hard hes like ok he goes harder i start telling him to fuck me harder u pussy bitch then he came in my ass and was still hard he said he can cum again so i go u better fuck this ass up he lasted about 5 mins and came again then he drove me to work