Im single guy that’s being struggling with my last relationship breakup after he just ghosted me. It’s sad honestly we lasted 4 years and leaving just like that really messed up with myself esteem. I became I mess mentally. I knew it was kinda of coming but after bonding and being very close, what really broke me was him just leaving me like that with no reason. Anyway the last month I’ve been trying to distract myself and focusing more of my goals and to find myself. It’s been working step by step, day by day. I wanted to be in a relationship again but I know I’m not ready just yet. I’m definitely not in the hookup phase because personally I don’t think that would help me at all. Instead working out it’s a big part of my goals and writing drawing. I just wanna say that even if you go through a big break up it’s just important to gather your thoughts and just take a deep breath and cry all you want and let it all out. Time does help healing but it’s your heart and mental attitude that will help achieve it faster. I hope I make sense y’all English is my second language 😅❤️. Much love to all 🫶🏻.