Hi I'm 24 years old vers and my boyfriend is 27 years old top, we have been together for 3 years and 8 months, we don't live together and we love each other very much, the situation is that from 2 years ago we have had problems with our sexuality, I'm very sexual and I want to have sex at least 4 times a week, but we only do it once a week and I always start it, I don't know if it has to do the fact that he is pre-diabetic or has hypertension but at the beginning he had the same condition and his sex drive was really high the same as me.

I get really frustrated about that, I don't feel like he truly desires me he says that it's because of stress and the economy, but I can't understand because I feel the same way and still get really turned on by him. last year I cheated on him with 4 men one time per person and he caught me, he forgave me because it was just sex without any feelings attached and during a time where he didn't touched me at all, 3 of the guys were bottoms so I was the top and that was another reason why he didn't got really mad and also he confessed that he had cheated also on me with one of my closest friends multiple times,

Anyway after that we promised that we would work things out, we would solve our problems and would have a better relationship But it's been over 1 year and half and is still the same, another fact is that he is still in the closet to his mom, she knows me as his best friend and that makes me insecure too, I wish she knew cuz she is a really nice person. But I understand it is his decision to tell her and I have never pressured him to say anything to her. He also promised we would live together 2 years ago but after that he has never shown any initiative on buying our furniture or looking for apartments etc.

So I don't know what to do if I should continue or break up with him, I spoke to him yesterday and told him my feelings he understood the situation and he says he's going to the doctor and fix it and I'm on therapy right now, but the same happened one year ago and I'm not sure is going to happen again. How can I trust him? I'm afraid I'm investing so much in this relationship and I'm not seeing this going anywhere! We also decided to give us a break this week to see how we feel apart from each other and the talk again. So what's your advice?