Currently talking to a guy (31M), have felt convos by text were usually engaged, light and interesting but I’m the one instigating. I’ve tried to back off and give them chance to message first but no joy. I’m getting mixed signals as they’ve been complimentary and stated they want to meet up.

Not sure if it’s just time of year and distractions from work, has said they are applying for a new job (happens to be closer to where I live) and also looking to move house. I feel I could carry the convos until we meet up but that I’m becoming over invested as it feels too one sided. On the other hand I’m aware that he is not long out of the closet (29, came out beginning of year) and me going quiet all of a sudden might make him think that I’m not interested? Anyone had similar experiences?