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Hello, last year I (21M) moved into an apartment complex on my own for the very first time. I week after I first moved in, as I was unpacking I saw possibly the most beautiful man I have ever seen in my life. He was so attractive I could not even do anything for the next 15 minutes because I was wondering “wtf was that?” He seems extremely kind and he introduced himself to me at one point and he looks my age. I am constantly kicking myself for not asking for his snap or something under the guise of “I just want to know my neighbors”. Anyways, it has been over a year and I have held off on asking him out just bc I think a relationship with a neighbor could be messy af in terms of space. Now I am getting ready to move out and I want to make my move. I have dated guys in that time frame, and he’s still in my mind. The problem is that I’m not sure if he’s into men. But as much as I hate playing on gay stereotypes I have noticed a few things. I feel like a stalker lmao. But he hasn’t brought up a girl to his apt. Or even a guy that I’ve seen like ever. So I believe there’s a chance. My main question is how can I approach him without weirding him out? Should I try to be friends first? That’s what my sister is telling me, but I know I will always be heavily attracted to him even if he turns out to be straight. Especially bc I most definitely do not want to just be friends and I feel like I would be lying to him. How should I move on it?
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