Sorry if this isn’t the right subreddit for this, I just feel more comfortable talking to LGBTQ people about this.

Okay so I (M20) Have been dating my bf (M20) For just over a year and two months. I have been fully convinced that he is my soulmate. He has always made me happy and we’ve never had an argument, he’s always giving me the most respect I could ask for he’s really the best and i’m in love with him. We both self harm and we have both said on numerous occasions that we wouldn’t be here without each other. However, the one downside is that we live 1000 miles away. We met when him and his family were on a vacation to my state and we ran into each other at a restaurant and exchange socials and eventually started dating.

So fast forward to about 2 months ago. I met this guy names Finn at my college. So far he is amazing, we have so many things in common with very few differences. We’ve hung out a lot since we met and he’s so nice and we share the same sense of humor. Recently i’ve been feeling like i’m catching feelings for him.

I feel like such a dick for feeling this way. I feel like i’m a bad boyfriend for even considering this. My boyfriend is amazing and we do too have many similarities and I am in love with him but it’s so hard to be long distance and it would be nice to be with Finn because he is so nice as well. I’m not sure what to do and I feel bad for posting this, someone help thank you.