We are both males in our early 20s. I am the first boyfriend he has ever had. And we haven't had sex yet. He's not paralyzed but he does need a wheelchair to get around. He also has asthma. And is completely blind in one eye. He has physical therapy once a week. And he goes to emotional therapist once a week as well.

It's not just his physical problem that I worry about. He was also repeatedly molested as a child by an adult male. And his mother knew all about it and did nothing to stop it. She also used to beat and neglect him.

I am also the first man he has ever been with. So being gay is very new to him. I just want him to feel comfortable.