My girlfriend (18F) and I (18F) have been together for 2.5 years. However recently, things haven’t felt right. We’ve had issues in the past and have always been able to work it out and move past it. I love her with all of my heart. But. I’ve been finding myself wishing that I wasn’t dating her. Her mental health is weighing on me so much lately. She has severe anxiety and depression. I used to be able to handle it, but the more time goes on the less it feels like I can handle it. With college right around the corner, I don’t want to start college with a relationship that shouldn’t be there. But I love her. No matter how much we try talking it out. It always comes back to these feelings. Every time I think of her I want to smile. She makes me laugh. I love her with all of my heart. She’s the first one on my mind when I wake up and the last one on my mind when I go to bed. But my parents have been limiting our interactions together too which is also weighing on both of us. I will go in and out of being happy. Any time she asks for reassurance I want to just walk away because I can only answer it for so long. She also (9 weeks ago) got pregnant (clearly not mine and it wasn’t by choice either). I told her the other night that she’s gotta choose the baby or me. Because as much as I love the baby and would be more than happy to take it in as my own, I’m not ready. I’m too young. I’m not mentally or financially ready for it. And so much more. As of recently, I’ve found myself smiling at the thought of another girl (18F). I recently found out she was gay and since then, she’s all that’s on my mind when my girlfriend isn’t. I feel un loyal. I feel like a cheater. I feel dirty and wrong for feeling how I do. I don’t want to leave my girlfriend. I love her so so much. But these feelings are so confusing and I just want to know. Is there anything in particular that I can/should do? If anyone else has ever had a similar situation, do you have any advice?