this is my best friend but I love him and want to have a relationship with him. He has a gf and a kid. he tells me to give him a couple of years until his kid is in school before he will leave her. He says he loves me but sometimes I feel like he doesn't. But he gets upset when he ask me to chill with him but I don't because his baby momma comes out when she sees that I am there. She brings up marriage and them getting a house together. I know it shouldn't get to me but it does. I asked him why he supposedly loves me and he said

"Well, the fact that you do what you do for me proves to me you really do love me , an its hard to find people that truly love you in this day and age. Ive known you for yearsss an you have never done nothing bad to me, you have done nothing but help me. Thats rare an hard to find. You are always there for me the best you can be.. Only thing I can bitch about is you sometimes give me a hard time with the Sam situation knowing I got to just ride it out. But you still doubt everything ive said about that.. Like I'm lying to you.. I HAVE to keep my shit under wraps if I want to see my son like i do now.. U should understand an respect that as thats my ONLY child an hopefully the only one I'll EVER have.."

I feel like he wants to be with me sometimes because he would ask what if's. He sould say things like I can let people know we are gay but the he would turn around and say he isn't gay that's that confuses me. What are your thoughts.